fyi there is no such thing as “getting back on track” after the holidays because you were never “off track” you were simply living life because you are a human being and you deserve that
When I was desperately dieting to lose weight, I had no clue
that dieting itself was causing me harm. The first step of intuitive
eating is giving up the idea that you could lose weight if only you
found the “right” diet. Genetics determine about 85% of what your body
looks like, but the diet industry wants to convince you that you could
be any size you want if only you tried hard enough. Recognize this lie
for what it is. There is SO MUCH scientific evidence reprinted in
“Intuitive Eating” showing the physical, psychological, and emotional
damage that dieting does. Contrary to what the diet industry wants you
to think, giving up dieting is actually the best thing you can do for
your health.
The train horn will forever be my favorite sound. The way it sounds so sad fills a void inside of me. A type of comfort only a parent gives a child. My blood runs deep in this sounds as it was built by my ancestors and it brought me a mother. I’m forever in debt to this feeling.
My best friend is dying and I can’t do anything for him except watch him and hope he’s comfy. Times are hard but his purr if still strong and I know he knows we’re trying. Let’s see what the vet says tomorrow. I feel as if I have slowly failed all my pets as noon have died a sweet innocent death they all have fallen chronically ill. I suppose that’s the way it goes with rescues. I’ve loved this cat since the day I saw him. He’s my soulmate and I’ll never give up on him.
i love watching the show my cat from hell because 9/10 times it usually features a heterosexual couple fighting over their hellion cat with one partner (usually the guy) saying “i cant stand this cat it needs to leave” while the girl is just like “no we can figure something out” and when jackson galaxy asks them if they would call it quits over the cat the guy is just like “ofc not she would always choose me over the cat” but if you zoom in on the girls face when he says that you know,,,,,you know,,,,,who will be leaving,,,,,,,,that house first
I was watching an episode w my dad and he couldn’t understand why they hadn’t gotten rid of the cat, but then I said something I guess he wasn’t expecting:
“The second a man gives me an ultimatum, the relationship is over.”
He kept harping that I’m going to be a very lonely woman with that attitude, so I told him that a man’s conditional affection, if it can be withdrawn or withheld over anything, is disingenuous and therefore worthless to me.
When you have a pet, that animal’s whole world revolves around you. They rely on you for everything. My pets are important to me, and if I got into a new relationship with somebody and they wanted them gone, I would dump that person’s ass in a heartbeat. My pets are my responsibility and my family. If a prospective partner really cared about me, they wouldn’t ever give me an ultimatum or try to force me to give up my animals. That’s not someone I want in my life.
“It’s the cat or me.” Welp, I guess I choose the cat because I’ve had him since he was a kitten and he doesn’t care for anyone but me. You can find somebody else to put up with your ultimatum bullshit.
